Maybe I just don't get it, maybe DB just doesn't work unless there really is a marriage at stake.

When I'm acting like the guy she always wanted she gets irritated and if I pull back I'm an a-hole. The car hasn't been an issue, guess I finally was firm enough about it without being an a-hole and we have been working together when it comes to the car.

I agree, I would think she would tell me but she hasn't and I figure if I ask it's just more of the same and more pressure. Sun-Wed was good and Wed we were both very flirty with each other. Come Thur things started going downhill a bit again and Fri morning I pulled a bit more of the same behavior and got more of the "I don't know" attitude. Last night and this morning I just wasn't in the best of moods and let it out on her a bit but at least after I did it this morning I apologized and things went back to at the very least being civil.

It's a really sucky roller coaster ride.

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln