Quote: I can handle Handjobs, Oral, cuddling in the bedroom... but I'm talking about all the other things that I could do outside of the bedroom...
Let's see, there's always sex on the kitchen counter, in the backseat of the minivan, the wonder of the "nooner" in his office chair.... They're all "outside of the bedroom."
Okay, seriously. Assuming his "primary love language" is touch, what's his secondary? Mine is "words of affirmation." I'd love to hear my wife tell me how she missed me, or how she thought of me during the day. I'd love to get a sexy e-mail from her during the day, or find a greeting card that she picked out, wrote a personal message on, and hid in my briefcase or lunch bag or in my car.
The realities of life may prevent you from coming home and doing him on the kitchen counter, but a long hug is usually doable...maybe even with a playful pinch of his butt at the end. Sustained eye contact is almost as good. A touch of your hand on his cheek. Plopping down on his lap while he's watching tv or reading and planting a big wet one on him.
While you're at it, could you forward these ideas to my W?
