3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[Am I Too Late]

W showed up for S-9's karate class this morning and we had minor general chit chat and she asked me what i thought of her new hair coloring. It looks real nice with red and white lines with sandy blonde main hair color. She doesn't like the red.

At least she asked my opinion and o was subtle with the praise.

Then towards the end of the hour she asked about visitation and i have yo check out next weeks schedule first but told her i would get back to her soon about it.

Slightly later i asked her about child support. She started claiming how broke she is and asked if $75.00 would be enough next Friday. I said its supposed to be 20% and then she wanted to make it conditional on visitation.

It's as if she was blaming me for her lack of contact with our son. Matter of fact, she was supposed to come by our home for a couple of hours after karate
but now she doesn't have enough gas. That's her choice or problem.

Tonight i am sending my son over for a sleep over and i am going out to watch a band that my brother is in. I figure that is some Me time for my GAL.

I would like to let my W know how many visits she has changed priorities on and canceled out on, but that would probably not be DB but it may be a chance to set up some boundaries.

I don't want to try to be right, just be fair for and to our son and hope she sees it that way too.

Ed