Hey all you lovely HDers, I need some advice, if you would.
Here's the sitch.
I'm LD, my H is HD. For about a year now, we've had a great amount of success in finding a happy medium. Some months we are better at it than others. Typically when things start to fall off is when the realities of life interfere. We're busy, you know? Rushing kids here and there during the week, their stuff on the weekends, his work load and associated pressures with his job... you know, life.
As an HD, he seeks comfort and reassurance from me through physcial closeness. I typcially seek comfort and reassurance through sleep. That's how I recharge.
When sex isn't possible, can you give me suggestions on what I can do to connect on a level he will understand? Outside of the bedroom? The little things? Do you know what I mean?
I can handle Handjobs, Oral, cuddling in the bedroom... but I'm talking about all the other things that I could do outside of the bedroom...
