I am so, so sorry for your loss. That is so hard on a family.

Did any of you (you, her, couple) get counseling after the first loss?

About the IC, doesn't mean she can't counsel you as the H of a W with PPD. But, you might want to wait and see who she chooses so as not to create a conflict for the IC.

This is a tightrope but I think you're up to the challenge.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss