Ya...FB [censored] lol!! I also took the step of removing my posts from all mutual friends walls, so he cannot see my posts either (not even on the kids' pages...)

I am not as strong as you, however, because I can still get access to his page through my kids' frown. I am trying though

Good for you for not being a spectator anymore!! It is a learning process, but one I would not wish on anyone.