Rubytuesday,

Thank you so much for taking time to learn about my sitch. I am benefiting tremendously from everyone's experience and their selflessness in sharing their mistakes, flaws and eventual personal successes on here.

I appreciate your support.


Originally Posted By: rubytuesday
It is really good that you realized that W has to have last little word whenever leaving MC. I have a feeling she is saying (as she does keep on saying), don't get any ideas, I am still at the same place I was before.


I think that is exactly what she is saying. Early on it discouraged me. I kept reminding myself of the marathon and and finally believe it really is a marathon.

Originally Posted By: rubytuesday
Keep doing well, being happy. Enjoy your babies. Also, if she brings up that she still feels exactly the same, say I understand and so do I smile


Great advice and an easy way to remind her where I stand when she brings that up.


W: 40
Me: 44
M: 12 years
Together: 14
Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1)
EA started in April, discovered in 07/12
ILYBNILWY: 07/12
MC Started: 09/12
Patience Tested: 1,245,963 times since 07/12