Sometimes DB gets interpreted as a one-size-fits-all and we all know from clothing fiascoes, that that is hardly ever true.
I look at is as a business plan, or in healthcare, a treatment plan. It's based on what most often works so you move forward with the plan while being alert to it's efficacy. If down the road the treatment is not working or even causes a deleterious effect, you stop that and finesse the plan.
We've all seen flowcharts, in my mind, this is similar.
The difficulty can be that sometimes it's hard to tell what's working.
Patience helps.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
