Originally Posted By: Big Bruce
But if I can venture something, maybe others will correct me : have you been a suck? You know, the mr nice guy? You're so analytical, so detached and calculating.. You possibly can't be French or Italian. Maybe what you need is more spontaneity, you know, romance, folly, humour, life...


Big Bruce, thank you for stopping by and reading my sitch. I understand your question but now struggle with how to add romance and folly back into the relationship and avoid pursuit behavior. I may be just getting too literal with my DBing approach at this point.

I would appreciate additional questions or insight that may help me implement some needed changes.


W: 40
Me: 44
M: 12 years
Together: 14
Three children (S-4, D-3, S-1)
EA started in April, discovered in 07/12
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