yes you are right I do need to get rid of resentment and anger.... I am sometimes successful at that...I need to unburden myself from it..and reinvent myself.
but as far a "they are only protecting their daughter" you are wrong there....They are enablers their youngest son has only been out of the house to go to college...he is 38 and has never lived at all...there is nothing wrong with him he is very intelligent and could go into any field that he wants...instead his dad gets him statistical jobs ocassionly....mom feeds and buys his clothes really sad I must say...oldest son has borrowed money from parents because he is living above his means; so many times I can't count...never to be repaid...and now daughter is playing her cards....there is a pattern....
