I read one of Michelle's links which described a successful technique as being an unconditional friend during this hideous time and I decided to adopt that as my strategy.
Portia, wondering if you have a link to this technique you could share? I also am trying to balance DB principles that are tried and true with the concept "do what works". With whatever I do, I try to observe the results and document them here for other, wiser, DB'ers to comment. I just keep telling myself that time is my friend...And try to remain patient.
I would rather feel pain then never feel at all... Separated 3/2012 T 34 yrs M 27 yrs
