The green green grass of home

[littleGTO]

SS,
I'm so sorry you are in this place. YOu have every right to ALL the emotions you are going through.

Your H is clearly in MLC--so that means he's in a very SELFISH place right now. H- MY LIFE, MY FRIENDS, MY SECRET OW, etc. It is all about him and he can't see his own face in the mirror if he looked.

Of course none of the things you described are unreasonable, but b/c he wants to blame YOU he's rewriting history and bringing up "old" issues to make himself feel better.

YOu deserve better. Detach... I would suggest "dimming yourself" from him. Now, I can suggest that, but others would say I probably could do the same.

We all need to make our own paths in DBing but I have to say it is easier as an outsider looking in than looking at our own sitch's clearly.

Take care of yourself.