My counseling took much longer than I would have liked to see real lasting progress but eventually, with patience and perseverance, I started turning things around. There were times I wanted to quit because it was a painful process but I stuck with it and now am happier than I've been in a long time (years).

I still go every week and don't know where I'd bee without it. At some point I look forward to not going so often.

My H ran out of patience about a year too early. frown

I'm not suggesting that you see this as a sign of hope but just an understanding that counseling is sometimes a slow process.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss