I told my IC that I feel really sorry for my H, which I do. I feel sorry that he's so lost and feels like he can't deal with any of it. I also feel sorry that he's apparently flushing $150 down the toilet each week since I can't see that IC is working very well for him.
Is your H seeing an IC? I thought he was just doing the MC with you. How long's he been going? Has he shared anything with you about it?
