Ok. The situation has shifted.
Created new thread : Welcome to catch-22

Everybody thanks for your help so far. It opened my eyes on the fact I needed to ask for my son.

Story to be continued, with your help I hope...

Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012