I would say so. He seems to at least show some interest then. My ex sounded alot like your H. There was no hope, he wasn't going to end his affair and I couldn't make him. What a little kid. Hon, he has a lot of work to do.
Let's get you bak to you and making your life better.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory