Tori, yes trust does take time; and I believe it will be a tad easier when / if she fully commits to the R with me. Earlier today she called and chatted me about all the "girls" that were going to be there tonight. All of coworkers are females. Many that know and like me if that matters at all. Also, she was asking if I was king out tomorrow, etc. St. Croix is the island. Fund wise just need it for airfare and food / drinks.
Denver, my want was to ask about tonight. I did realize it would do me no good; and as you said whatever happens will happen. She left a few hours ago. I was cool, calm, and collect when she left. Wished her a good time and to be careful. As far as remaining friend with OM, she knows my opinion on that. A big fat no way in hell. . I think she gets it. So we will see.