I want my marriage to work and the db counselor told me that distance and separation only breed more distance.
Call a DB coach and see what they think. I think your C is mistaken, but I'm not an expert on this. I do know that the typical C approach is vastly different than DB'ing.
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so i don't see how moving there and not finding work going broke is going to save my marriage
Neither do I. Sounds more like pursuit behavior that would just drive H farther away.
