SG this is my first post on someone elses situation outside of my own.
From what I see from reading this thread you need to GAL man. You are exactly where I am. Worrying about rings, phones flipped over, trying to control her, worried one night she touch you the next night she doesn't.
You need to start making plans. You need to learn to meditate or do something to get the stress out. At night you need to read books and detach. Spend time with your son. I am no expert but I've had a ton of expert advice.
reading your post gave me instant anxiety and made me realize why LA stopped reading my posts.
The last few nights I've increased GAL, learned Qi Gong, and read books, and building son a ice hockey rink.
My W took her rings off one night and didn't come home til 115 am. My W NEVER does this behavior. She hasn't worn them since and if she does wear them its just so she gets no questions.
If you are truly detached you will not worry about phone being flipped over (I KNOW IT [censored] CUZ MY W DOES THIS), rings on, etc..
Mr. B told me my anxiety is self inflicted. It is. GAL is only fix man. If you can't get out of house I suggest doing something away from her. Working out, movies, get a hobby, do something and take focus off wife.
Just in the last 2 days this has helped me 3 fold.
When my W txt me now I reply in away where I dont EXPECT an answer. I am short,cheerful, and precise.
