just wanted to say i'd think taking off the ring was okay- it's symbolic and sends a message from you about the whole 'separate lives" thing. i wish i had one to take off.
my h lies and lies about ow - and i read the darn texts with my own eyes- i saw her naked pixon computer for God's sake- yet this dope lied (and initially i believed). God save us from our own trust sometiems.
anyway- i feel fried about the lying too - of everything- that offends me most. that in the face of your courage to ask- they chicken out and lie.
i don't know how to incorporate it- i will be interested to see wehre your intellect & heart lands on this issue. it's big & awful- i got nothin
