Yes we do have to do what works. But in order to do that, what I have found, we have to DETACH first. From what I have learned so far, and witnessed in my own trial and errors, is that I cannot get a clear head when I let my emotions and fears rule my mind and heart. They have to take a back seat to our rationale right now.
I have learned that nothing can happen unless detaching happens first. Every time I have used my GUT or EMOTIONS has only got me further away from my ultimate goal. I spent almost two years doing that before I found this place.
I feel if I had found this place earlier, there would have been much more hope for my sitch. But at least now I have hope for myself.
Keep going Arsene. We are all here for you and we believe in YOU.
Busting.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
