oh yeah - i forgot. i love your formula and it's my new matra - stfu- you know, i thought i invented that a bunch of years ago- oh man.....

i'm tryin, that one will stand me in good stead across the board in life- no matter which way this goes w/ h.

your thoughts & formula helped alot.

the psych article was interesting- but not so much me. part of my problem is people come from far and wide to "tell me" stuff. it wears me out- i do listen - i try and make thoughtful comment or treat their "story" like i'd want someone to deal with me. I get it that we're all human and feel the same things- i can feel their pain or discomfort- i would never ever downplay or disregard anyone's anything- everyone has their dignity & right to kindness & compassion-

with h - idk - maybe i've spent too much time talking to women? &* i s_ck atmen?