SG you are being to hard on yourself and I think your expectations are really high. Don't let her wearing her rings then taking them off bother you. My W hasn't worn her rings but once since she said we were seperated. We went out back in Feb I think for my cousins birthday and I noticed she had them on. I didn't say a word about just thought to myself that it was fake.

Your W I'm not sure comment may have meant she isn't sure about you the two of it also may not. You are mind reading here. Stop doing that bud it solves nothing but drives you crazy.

Baby steps SG. I think I suggested to you before to read Bustorama's thread. His story is similar to yours and he managed to reconcile with his W. Strange how some of the success stories on here all have something in common. When the LBS was truly the one ready to move on with their life and D their WAS the WAS realized that they really didn't want to D. It may help you to read those stories to know exactly what those LBS went through.

Take one day at a time and don't get your hopes up because you are only in for a let down. Its going to be a long journey. Trust me I know look how long I've been in my sitch with really no progress on my W's part. Overall I think you are doing good.


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out