Thanks Mach1. You seem to pop in just at the right times. Great advice as always
I had a good coaching session and came up with a plan of action going forward for the next few months. I'm back to "enjoy every moment" but I've drawn a boundary with regards to OM and if W steps on it, I will call her out on it.
I honestly expect the next few months to be the best of my M, regardless of whether W continues down the path of D or not. If she feels like she needs D to feel free, or to be herself, or whatever, I will support her, but that doesn't change who I am, or who I want to be.