Well H is off to gamble. Didn't take a change of clothes so will probably return today?

He hasn't had any more talks with me to speak of although out of the blue he asked "Why is my parents death going to be so hard for me to handle? Its not fair, what my father did to me, now I'm afraid every day that they're dead." So I know their health is weighing heavily on his mind. As is income for our family, but that topic has only been hinted at.

I am trying to keep as distant as possible, working on detaching. Focusing on getting the house in shape (a 180 for me) and doing holiday baking (something I used to do but had gotten away from).

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.