Funny Story, my therpist had an issue like your long distance relationship. He divorced his 1st wife moved away to another state to be with OW. Then 5 years later got remarried back to his 1st W.
So its possible....I haven't read your sitch but i would focus 1st on getting back to the person you used to be. Take care of yourself 1st and try to keep in communication if you want. To be honest without having a common thing to hold on to, a long distance relationship is going to be hard. My therapist had kids as their anchor.
I think you heard it already but focus on being the best you 1st and don't make any rash decisions by moving, quiting work, etc because your H is doing what he wants to do.
Imagine if you moved and couldn't find a job and your H still goes to the OW......It would be even harder on you.
