With the LBS situation, it is very depressing to read.
When you finally decide to take control of yourself, it's like going to war for many of us...
That anger can get you deeper into trouble and cause you to build up walls.
I've just been thinking, when I come to this site I get depressed. I'm sure many of you do as well, but this board and boards like it where a great source of help and motivation, when I felt isolated being tortured by a WAS.
To help some of the other LBS members, well we do need that "fighting chanuce" spirit, also GAL anad 180.
But we also need something that keeps us really positive. With true detachment, you have essentially let the other person go. I wanted to mention that, because many of us where saying detached and we are still doing husbandly and wively duties as well as concern, worry, etc...
What would have helped me being in an LBS position was other LBS(s) who socilaize, talk on the phone or talk about some really positive things. Actually enjoying their lives and knowing everything is going to be OK no matter what the WAS does.
