H came and got the 2 youngest last night, took them to dinner and S13 said he wasn't hungry at that point and hewould eat when he came home, H said "oh you'll eat for mom but not for me?" he know when S13 is on ADD meds its an appetite suppressant.

Then he took them to a shoe store because D9 will be 10 this month so she saw a pair of boots she liked so he took a picture of them and text it to me and said I wanna get these for D9 for her birthday, I text back and said "Those are perfect for her" which is a 180 for me as I've always been adament that I buy her clothing cause he simply [censored] at it LOL

I was very shocked that he even showed them to me as he now doesn't care about my opinion about ANYTHING!!! Maybe it was a test? Thinking I would say they're ugly...which I probably would have.


M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending