I wouldn't avoid it if I were you. Either way, it is something that you are going to have to face.
I don't plan on avoiding it. I just don't know how to approach the situation, or what to say, or how to act. I mean, I will figure it out I'm sure. I just need to be happy and upbeat either way, probably a little vague. I just feel that I would probably get into a long conversation about everything that I have been doing to better myself and I don't think that is what I am supposed to be doing. Should I just talk to her as if nothing was wrong and not talk about the elephant in the room if she doesn't bring it up, or should I just be cordial and make it a short conversation, and very matter of fact? I guess I just want to know what my general demeanor should be.
Me - 32 Wife - 31 No kids Married - 3 Together - 6 "I need space" - July 2012 Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012 Separation - September 2012