Dealing with the reality of separation

[Grateful]

Ok, so just got a text from the W. She says:

"Hi, hope your week is going well:) How is (cat) doing? I'm wondering if we could talk sometime soon? Or would you prefer to continue to communicate electronically?"

I got excited for a minute, but then I thought that she is just going to tell me that we need to figure out how to finalize the divorce. Now I am super nervous about talking to her. I haven't heard her voice since September! How do I play this?!???!

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I wouldn't avoid it if I were you. Either way, it is something that you are going to have to face.