Dealing with the reality of separation

[PeteWyo]

IC update: Went to see the IC last night. Learned that my W hasn't been there for quite a while and that they are going to start charging me the full amount again. (They were giving me a discount because we were going separately.) Disappointing a little bit, I thought maybe that would help my W clear her head. I'm not sure she will ever get over her confrontation issues without counseling and I do want that for her. Also my IC, who if you remember was also our MC early on, told me again that she agrees that everything that my W had issue with was very minor and very fixable but that the OM was clouding the picture and until he was out, there was no fixing it. She also said that she has seen similar situations in the past and it sounds like W is using all of these "issues" as excuses to rationalize being with OM. I don't know how this makes me feel. On one hand I feel better to know that I am not crazy, but even more frustrated to hear a licensed professional tell me that everything was not as bad as W said it was! Ugh, I am actually not dwelling on it, just need to vent that that is what this board is for for me! Glad it is Friday, going to hang out with some friends tonight and go to a Jazz bar, sounds fun and I am actually looking forward to it instead of worrying about being in a social situation. That feels great!