H has just text me saying

' it is hard for me too, harder for you though I think. I am just trying to focus on myself and move on and get my head into a decent place. I want you to do the same thing'

If it is hard for him too why won't he come back and try.....! I don't think he is seeing someone else, he is adamant he isn't and I don't feel he is. Is it time to go dark? Should I sign the papers?