The crack in my separated life...

[Sweetbriar]

yes, I do have nice plans for Thanksgiving...have done the same tradition for my whole life and now my kids lives. We head to my grandmothers (kids great grandmother) house and have dinner there with my entire family. She is 74 and this is something she loves to do! It will be strange there without H this year...its usually when we take a picture of us for our Christmas card..which will just be the girls this year!

I have another question for everyone out there....

Is it normal for WAS/MLCer to completely throw themselves into work? H seems to be at work every Sat, all day, and told the kids its because he can just blast his music with no one there and just do his work. Now, he seems to be there late at night...tonight he called at 9:30 and was still at work. He does NOT get any overtime for this so its not for extra money. I know its a good way to not be at his parents house, which he hates to be stuck at, but he has never been so into work, EVER. Wondering if this is just another way to escape and if its normal?