So H actually called the kids tonight. Glad for that. I didn't speak to him. Our 14th anniversary is tomorrow. Not sure how I feel about that. One of my friends asked me to go with her to see a band tomorrow. I am going to go!
I found it irritating that H told S14 he might come over tomorrow to see them, even though I had asked repeatedly for him to call me a day before. Also H told S he was coming on Sat for the girls birthday. Never said a word to me. Not to sound hateful but why come on our anniversary to see the kids when he is coming the following morning as well. I would think he would want to keep his distance but I guess I shouldn't be a mind reader. My luck he will be bringing D papers. That'd be about right.
So either way, I am going to continue to do what I had already planned. Some people take a little longer to learn than others I guess. He sure doesn't like that boundary. lol It's not at all to punish him but to keep him from getting angry when we already have other plans. We shall see how it goes.
