It does help. She is seemingly being honest; and probably is attention seeking. I have already told her The good / weird news is that OM has already moved onto some other girl. It sounds like he has had and does keep several at a time. it would have to be, at some point NC, if / when she is to commit 100% to the R. Right now she is wanting baby steps and friendship. I can kind of handle that. . Oh and in re: to an IC, seems as if the one picked out may be flaky and W is terrified to face her actions. Going to work out. Check back with yas later.
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