Been a while on an update. After hardly any communication between my wife and I, even at work, every time I would start a conversation she would reply with a snippy not so nice response. It seemed like she was getting angrier with me the longer we went without communicating. So I changed tactics and started trying to communicate several times a week even if for a short period. Now she responds in a nice fashion every time we speak.
I go through daily ups and downs where one day I want to be done with everything, get divorced and move on. Then the next day I am thinking that we can do this and what I have to do to save the relationship. A couple of days ago on one of the good days I blurted out an invitation to dinner this weekend and she accepted. The next day was a bad day and I was regretting the decision and thinking this can be nothing but bad news. So since I dont want to back out now, is there any advice on what I need to do or not do, or say or not say so this whole thing doesnt blow up in my face?
