Ditto. My H left. I never knew that he was unhappy. I think he says that just to have a "reason" for his crazy selfish behavior. If you're a real adult, you try to work thru things, especially if you've been together so long and have kids. You don't just turn your back on your wife and kids and walk out. It seems like its so easy for him. We're the ones trying to get thru everyday. We're the ones that hear the kids anger, see their tears, and watch how his leaving effects everypart of their lives. This all done to them by the man that was supposed to love them unconditionally.
I love my H. I hate thinking about us not spending our lives together. But, I only have control over mine. It's not fair that we have to suffer from their idiot, selfish choices.
