Yes, it is a positive for the newbies to know that there are some marriages that get restored, but they also need to understand it takes years of hard work, time, space, patience, compassion, more patience and working on themselves to hopefully reconcile.
This journey is not an easy walk in the park, but a very dark, twisted, bumpy journey w/a lot of self discovery along the way.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
