Well, this morning he came to me to ask for some advice. Because we both know the OW (and her H), he wanted to know if I saw her behavior as blah, blah, blah. He is starting to realize that this woman is looking for a way out of her marriage! The fact that all she cares about is money must have come up in one of their conversations and now that he's had several weeks to think about her motives, he's realized that she doesn't really want much to do with him unless he is willing to spend money on her!!!! I semi agreed that he might be right and sited a few instances when we first met the OW and her H and it all started making sense to him!!!!! I'm not saying that he is going to magically be "normal" but it's a start.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama