Thanks ms, I am humbled, for sure. I do not believe I have "arrived", but I know where I need to be, and why, and am finally agreeing to it.
My W was supposed to see MC this morning. She didn't...she had called yesterday to confirm the appt. they said yes, 10 am see you tomorrow. She showed up at 9:45 to be told the counselor was not working today.........
She called me angry and frustrated, and boy was I able to validate THOSE emotions. She said she was "all geared up to do this". It was a deflation for both of us. Rescheduled appt. for 12/6. We both said maybe we should go elsewhere. Looking at other options.
She asked "do you just want to get together Saturday to talk?" I said sure. This will be our first meet in three weeks I think, and SHE suggested it.
Baby baby steps...
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.
