Ed there is nothing you can do about her and the OM it's her choice. I have to ask why you want her back? This is a woman who has major issues and correct me if I'm wrong hasn't she had a few OM's? Talk about no respect for you. You can't have a marriage with a third person in it.

Listen Ed I really believe that you deserve better. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, someone who respects you. Yes you had good times with her but she may be too far gone and who is to say that if you reconciled that something else wouldn't trigger her to do this again? Is that something you want to go through again. For me I'd cut my losses no matter how hard. You know my sitch and if I knew my W had OM I would end it as I could never trust her again. I'm not trying to tell you what to do I'm just giving you food for thought.


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out