I brought up the shopping as a 180. Biggest complaints had been how selfish I am and how important the kids are.
But it didn't go well, did it? A 180 doesn't just mean doing the opposite of EVERYTHING you were doing before. You've got to frame it against DB'ing and make sure it's consistent with DB'ing.
Quote:
My friend told me today that GF confided in her that she's not moving out and is staying with me to work on things.
Has she told you this? If not, why not? Shouldn't you be the FIRST person she should discuss this with?