Just back away and take some time now, to let the dust settle down.
Nothing has to happen quickly, and nothing is going to change overnight.
You have come a long way, and although you feel as though you still have a long way to go, you will get there, in time.
Take what you have learned, and apply it towards your life, and the things that you want out of life.
Remember that list of qualities that you made ?
Show those to the world everyday, regardless of what adversity you may be facing. Do it, not because you are trying to induce a reaction, do it regardless of the reaction.
Nothing is ever really over until you make the choice for it to be over. Do what is right for you and your children, and let the rest, fall where it may.
