I did that on Monday night. She asked if it would be ok if she went to a happy hour. I said yes and watched S. She said she'd come home and make a late dinner for her and I. Except she didn't come home until 10PM and never called.
After that experience just two days ago, I felt no reason to offer to allow her to go out again when I'm exhausted from working late. Especially when it's a happy hour for the possible OM. At that point I just felt like I'd be enabling her to walk all over me.
Ok then you did the right thing IMHO. Look at it this way as well. You really can't physically stop her from going to happy hour so maybe you could have thanked her for not going even though she was mad. She did stay home. I can recall when my W was doing the happy hour thing that there was nothing I could do to stop her from going. She went irregardless of me.
Originally Posted By: someguy1233
W powers through when she's sick. Whenever she's sick I try to get her to rest and tell her I'll take care of things. She's mentioned seeing an IC a few weeks back, but I haven't seen or heard or take any action on it.
Then that is an issue only she can work on. Everyone is different when they are sick. She has to want to go and saying she is going and really going are two different things. Who bought up her going to see an IC? No matter who did bring it up don't push the issue which I don't think you are doing.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out
