NickB, as long as the sessions seem to be helping, keep going. But never stick with a MC who makes you feel worse.

You're doing the right thing by being patience. I see that you have three really young kids, which can put a lot of strain on a M. Lots of stress. Your W seems to be angry, and blinded by her emotions. Give her space. Don't take what she says too seriously. She's trying to hurt you bc she's hurting inside...