WOW, can I be your date?!! What a great time it sounds like it will be!
Your mindset is amazing!
I so wish my H would agree to a date. Alas, when I brought it up lightly in the not-so-distant past he said he is not in a place to do that right now.
Good for YOU!
TG at least you appreciate it
TG, if you go on a date with your H, make sure you treat him like a new person. No expections of H/W relationship. It will make the date that much better because you wont' be there thinking or judging him on his past behaviors.
Update from my date
I had a great time yesterday not sure about my W because she is under alot of stress and she looks tired. I think she had an "okay" time. I know the bigger issue is, she isn't allowing herself to have a great time because I already know her heart isn't into it. But oh well, at least i had a good time and i know if her heart was in it, she would of really enjoyed it.
We ate a great meal. The setting was romantic , the dishes where fancy, yummy and $$$. I dressed my best.
The Concert was awesome!!! Had a really good time.
I listened, I flirted, I smiled and no talks of R.
She even asked me to book a room overnight and I did, but we may as well have been in seperate rooms.....but i swear in any other date...it would of been a great night.
But hey she is a date after all but I do know this, if i took a women out and did what i did above and she wasn't happy, i wouldn't have a 2nd date. But since this is my W and my timeline is 6 months...try try again.
But at least I accomplished Detatching, GAL and 180 all in 1 night. I kind of felt sorry for her too, her I was, a better me (in a few more months, even better), the father of her 3 kids and she wants to test the other side. But then i said to myself "why am i feeling sorry, she is the one missing out"
