Bug- Do you find he is resentful of you getting to feel those emotions? I think my H is. I'm not sure. It could be guilt but he will hang up on me if I show any emotion at all. Screams at me to stop if I get upset or start crying. It's dumb. What upsets me most is how emotionless he is and I tend to over compensate. Hmm. Just wondered if you had noticed that with yourself.