What a great post. I am guilty of feeling sorry for myself and what he has done to me and the kids that I can't/won't believe that he feels any pain or guilt...I'll try to be more understanding...
You said in the post that they become jealous of thier teenagers, I have thought this about H for months now. S17 does well in school, honor roll student (H always struggled has ADD barely graduated) S17 drives a really nice car...well nice for a 17 yr old (H says I drove a piece of sh!t at your age) note that S got his car on his own not paid for by us. I am still reading the thread so I'm sure I'll have more to say. Thanks for this Snodderly your a diamond in the rough for us
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
