Put your hands up; it's a wild ride

[someguy1233]

So yesterday W and I were exchanging small talk emails on occasion. I've NEVER initiated email or text contact since 10/8 when she dropped the bomb. Almost every day she starts the communication.

Shortly before we'd both be leaving work she emailed stating she was going to a happy hour because it was a coworkers last day in the office. She knew I was exhausted from working late the night before, so she offered to see if her mom could help watch S. I agreed. Her mom wasn't available so W skipped the happy hour.

The happy hour was for the suspected OM. He should be relocating across the country soon.

When I got home W was clearly annoyed/angry/frustrated. She barely engaged me through dinner. She spoke only to S. At one point she looked at me and said, "I'm going to <girlfriend's name> house after S goes to bed." She also made a comment about how the world would fall apart if there were only men. This is her usual type of slap in the face when I'm sick/tired/etc. She thinks I can't "man up" and deal with it. Should I have offered to watch S alone despite being exhausted?

She also made a comment about apply for other full time jobs. So at that moment, I guess her working part time and staying home with S was off the table. I'd still be interested in what you all think of this... (details in my prior post)

She started to loosen up after dinner while we were playing with S. At one point she put her legs up on mine as we sat on the couch. After a moment it was as if she realized what she was doing and quickly pulled away. (yes, mind reading, but it was odd...)

S slept horribly. He must be getting sick. I laid with him until W came home at 10PM. Then I brought him to her and said I needed to get some sleep. She tried to sleep with him but he was restless. She says she got 90 minutes of total sleep all night. I explained that she could have gotten me to help after a couple hours. She sarcastically said, "noooo... you need to get your sleep." She stayed home from work today.