There'll be no white flag above my door-not yet La

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Apology accepted, Melissa. I wasn't upset, you just needed to be in a place to hear what was being said.

Nothing new here. I haven't heard from H. So apparently his need to do nothing has overcome his need to "get things settled".

Am I surprised? No. He'll wait for me to assume my old role as The Expeditor.

I did have to email him about arrangements for him to pick up our sons on T-giving day. We are all going to be out-of-town in the same town and the sons won't have a car to go meet him so he has to pick them up.

He didn't respond.

I had some anger this past week but at the same time I feel sad for him, he's so uncomfortable. I know someone will say, and rightly so: Mind-reading.

But he is unsettled, because when I communicate with him it forces him to have some kind of feeling, an emotion that he then has to stuff.

Not a happy way to live.